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July 28, 2007
I Lost A Friend
Hi everybody,
Yesterday I received some very sad news that an old friend of mine has died. It was an entirely preventable death, and I am beside myself with grief. I've basically been crying for twenty-four hours. I don't want to go into detail for the privacy of the family and the fact that I just don't want to rehash it. But I may be out for a little while... I just can't stand to be Happy Cute posting recipes right now. MR has been wonderful... he held me last night through hours of crying. I'm a little better this morning, but I think it will just take a long time to heal.
When these things happen it sometimes makes us reflect on what a blessing our time on earth is, and how much we must be grateful for every minute we have with those we love. Go cuddle your spouses, lovers, parents, friends, children, kitties and doggies and bunnies and even your turtles. I'm sure at some point I'll recover, but right now it feels like the pain will never stop. I'll probably surface faster than I think I will, as writing usually helps me feel better. But if I'm out for a few days that's why.
Thank you for all of your love and well-wishes and prayers.
Posted by april at July 28, 2007 9:22 AM
Comments
I'm so sorry, April.
Take all the time you need. My thoughts and best wishes are with you.
Love,
R
Posted by: Robin at July 28, 2007 11:40 AM
It's such a horrible thing. I'm so sorry for everyone concerned. S.x
Posted by: Sara at July 28, 2007 2:20 PM
Hi April
I'm sorry about your loss.
Arturo
Posted by: Arturo at July 28, 2007 4:47 PM
RL trumps blogosphere. Take care of yourself, and you and your friend's family will be in my thoughts. :-)
Posted by: Sarah at July 28, 2007 5:11 PM
My condolences. It's very painful to grieve. you must take your time and go through it at your own pace. I'm so sorry for you and your friends family and other friends.
Posted by: Deborah at July 28, 2007 5:16 PM
dear aprilita,
my deepest condolences.
love,
zeynep
Posted by: istanbulwitchy at July 28, 2007 5:32 PM
That is so sad! It's very hard to lose a friend, especially suddenly. Let the tears come. As the 70s song told us, "It's all right to cry. Crying gets the sad out of you." Love and hugs. JD
Posted by: Judith at July 28, 2007 9:34 PM
I'm so sorry April :(
Posted by: Steph at July 28, 2007 10:34 PM
Hugs, April. We're thinking of you.
Posted by: Lindsay at July 28, 2007 11:59 PM
I, I, I, I, I. It really is all about you - all the time, April, isn't it?
Posted by: Jane at July 29, 2007 2:11 PM
Well, Jane, it is my blog. Not quite sure what you were expecting. Maybe a blog about you? Not sure, as we've never met.
What a nasty comment to write to someone who just had a death to deal with. I really don't know what the hell your problem is. If you don't want to read the blog, then please go elsewhere.
a
Posted by: april at July 29, 2007 3:37 PM
Don't let the stupid trolls get you down, Sweetie!
Posted by: Robin at July 29, 2007 6:50 PM
My heartfelt condolences on your loss.
Posted by: Gregg at July 29, 2007 7:26 PM
I'm just one of your random readers (in the UK) who is genuinely sad to hear your news as I really enjoy reading your blog. I almost feel I know you - you're so honest and your personality really shines though your writing. Blessings to you at this difficult time.
Posted by: Grace at July 30, 2007 4:05 AM
So very sorry for your loss April.
Posted by: Mizpah at July 30, 2007 5:00 AM
Many positive thoughts to you, and all who are greiving the loss of your friend. My condolences to you at the loss of a loved one. **hugs**
Posted by: Janesca at July 30, 2007 7:23 AM
I am very sorry to hear about your loss April. I dont mean to pester, but you mentioned it was a totally preventable death. I know you dont want to talk about it, but you also mentioned this, as youd expect we'd worry and ponder about. To possibly help us and our loved ones and prevent this from happening, would you mind explaining the circumstances?
all the love for you right now,
nick
Posted by: Nick at August 2, 2007 4:03 AM
Sorry to hear about the bad news April... I hope you're feeling a bit better.
Posted by: Matt at August 3, 2007 7:48 AM